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The Wanted Child

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When Janet first discovered that she was pregnant, she and her husband were thrilled. But then Janet received terrible news: a test showed that the baby was severely deformed. On the advice of her doctor, Janet regretfully decided to have an abortion.

But when she asked to see her tiny aborted child, Janet was shocked to see it was a perfectly formed baby boy. Later she read the autopsy report, which confirmed that the baby had not been deformed but was perfectly healthy.

Janet was devastated to realize that because of a faulty medical test she had aborted a perfectly normal baby. And when her story was told on “60 Minutes,” host Leslie Stahl shared her outrage. The program focused on the mistaken test results, asking “Who is responsible for this tragedy?” Stahl treated the mother, who is, after all, the one who made the abortion decision, as an innocent victim.

Of course, the bitter irony is that every day thousands of perfectly healthy babies are aborted — not by mistake, but deliberately and intentionally. But programs like “60 Minutes” do not treat their deaths as a tragedy. How is it that even thoughtful, well-educated Americans today exhibit such an astonishing moral schizophrenia?

The answer is that a baby's entire value is now defined by whether or not the parents want it. The role of technology is merely to support whatever they choose. Do they want a baby? Fine. Advanced reproductive technologies can be employed to help them. Do they want to get ride of a baby? Fine. Abortion technology is standing by to meet their desires. Neither choice may be pronounced wrong or immoral.

This radical moral relativism reveals how much Americans have become children of enlightenment. In the absence of a moral framework, all desires are considered equally valid, all equally legitimate. Without any over-arching moral order, technology is merely an instrument to satisfy our impulses, whatever they may be.

That's why “60 Minutes” could not bring itself to address the real moral conundrum — which is why the death of Janet's baby was tragic, while the death of thousands of healthy babies just like hers is a sign of liberation. No, the only socially acceptable scapegoat was the failure of technology to fulfill someone's deeply felt desire.

Of course, it all begins with the assumption that a deformed child ought to be aborted in the first place — and assumption Christians everywhere ought to challenge. One of my own colleagues was told that his unborn son might have the same genetic defect that Janet's baby was diagnosed with. But, as Christians, he and his wife did not seek a technological escape. Instead, they turned in trust to the One who is the Resurrection and the Life.

Just as in Janet's story, the diagnosis turned out to be mistaken. But, unlike Janet, my colleague now has a healthy baby boy and does not face the wrenching responsibility of having aborted his child in search of the perfect baby.

Would that the Janets of this world understood that the real tragedy is not a malfunction in technology, it's a malfunction of our moral senses. We have made machines of death — and, unfortunately, they work all too well.

Chuck Colson, “The Wanted Child: Moral Schizophrenia Confuses Rights” (Prison Fellowship Ministries, 2000). Used with permission.

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